All things sex: Anal Sex II

Anal is the act of penetration of the rectum by a penis, or any other object like a strap on or butt plug. There are a lot of sensations and pleasure that one can get from anal sex. The prostate gland in men is the male equivalent of the Skene’s gland commonly known as the g-spot. This is the part that gets stimulated during anal sex, for both men and women. The rectum is also a part of the body that is rich with muscles and elasticity that can provide great sensations and pleasure for both the one being penetrated and the one penetrating.

It is important to practice safe anal sex. And so, the first thing that would be required when having anal se is lube, lube and loads of lube. Remember tour rectal muscles are built to push out rather than take in, and so some reverse psychology will be needed with also lube to make things a bit smoother.

With anal sex also comes the responsibility of clitoral or penile stimulation and obviously other erogenous parts of the body (parts of the body that your partner can get off on). You must make sure that the person being penetrated is also having the genitalia and clitoris stimulated. This gives them that much more pleasure and allows them to be wet, hard and a bit more relaxed allowing for ease of penetration to the rectum. The stimulation and lubrication are continuous in making sure that the person being penetrated feels less pain as possible and more pleasure.

So constantly stimulating the clitoris and fingering and touching Skene’s gland from the side of the vagina does wonder. Your partner will be soaking wet and will have the most pleasurable experience that guarantees orgasms. The same goes for your partner that has a penis, constantly stimulating their penis and other erogenous zones of their body is important for relaxation and enjoyment whilst engaging in anal sex.

Finally, communication is important like in any other form of sex or sexual act. You must constantly communicate with your partner about how they are feeling and whether they’re enjoying the experience. How fast you can go or how slow you can all depends on your partner, you and both your comfortability. Just always remember that anal doesn’t have to be penal.