All things sex: Fellatio/Blow job V

So we're closing the All things sex series with a bang! Excuse the pun. I want in the last post on this series to talk about all things the art of fellatio or what you may know as a blow job (BJ)

Fellatio is a form of sex just like cunnilingus, that has been stigmatized a lot. It's be categorised as a taboo sexual practice, and of course as millenials we have taken strides to break those stereotypes. Fellatio is meant for pleasure for all parties involved and is in itself a form of sex.

Fellatio goes beyond just being a form of foreplay, but it goes a long way in sexual satisfaction and can stand alone on its own as sex. A lot of people get off of blowing and get some of the greatest sexual pleasure.

In this insert I will talk a bout the necessities of a blow job. From preparation, the actual sexual intercourse, enjoyment, techniques and so on.

Preparation is pretty simple. All you need is a penis and a mouth. Hygiene goes without saying. Both these have to be at their cleanest.

Just a bit of a biology lesson before we get deep into it. Semen is a secretion that contains sugar, sperm cells and water. That's what gives it it's whitish colour. The sugar and water feed the sperm cells and allow them to swim towards the egg cell. Your diet obviously will have an effect on how your semen tastes. A portion of fruit everyday will do the trick in making your semen's taste a bit sweeter.

The whole point of a blow job is enjoyment for all parties involved. What a lot of people downplay when it comes to blowing is lubrication. Most people prefer a drink of water before, that helps with the cottonmouth but it doesn't work so well if your reflex gag is week, it could mean ending vomiting out that water all over the placed hurting yourself. So lube! Lube! Lube! And to exercise your gag reflexes, deep throat an ice lolly on a regular and that should work

So you have to ensure that you lubricate the penis all along the shaft. And that's all you need to be ready to suck.

You can then start by slowly stroking your mouth up and down the shaft, in an effort for the lube and your saliva to be one and your mouth to get used to the environment. This also helps your jaw to get a good comfortable position. The best shape to keep your mouth is an oval or round like shape. Remember the penis is very fragile, so you want to avoid penile fractures at all costs. So even when you're being a bit rough with the shaft, be mindful of that.

Another is using your tongue. Use this technique when you want to give your jaw a bit of a break. You can use your tongue on the glans of the penis. The glans is almost like the clitoris of the penis. It has a lot of nerve endings and you can achieve great stimulation from it. Refer to the post about cunnilingus on young techniques.

At this point using your hand to stroke the shaft is essential, as your tongue is working the glans your hand is working the shaft. This is just the start to happy sucking.