BDSM: Ties that make cum (Bondage) I

A lot of us have heard about BDSM, watched or read Fifty shades of Grey but that still leaves most people wondering "what the fuck is BDSM!?". Today we get into the nitty gritties of what BDSM is and how this can open you up to a whole new world of sexual pleasure and stimulation, foreplay and just general fun of enjoying sex and all the benefits it comes with. Let's start by actually getting into what the letters stand for. BDSM stands for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism.

My focus today will be specifically on bondage. Bondage can be very fun if it done in the right way and also done safely. The type of material used during bondage is thus very important. Ties, rope, cable ties, cuffs etc. But all of this has to be made and designed in such a way that it can not cause major flesh wounds and eat into the skin.

There are different ways in which you can bind your partner, and one of the most common and easy ones is binding your partner hands and/or arms. You could bind the hands and out them on top of their head if lying down or sitting down. Another way to bind hands and/or arms is binding the arms from the back, this is with them sitting down or with them on their knees, chest and facedown.

Another way is by having your partner either on their back or facedown in the doggie position. With this trick you bind their left hand to the left ankle and their right hand to their right ankle. This way of bondage is more comfortable with your partner lying on their back or being facedown in the doggie position.

The last form of bondage I will touch on is binding your partner to an object like a headboard, table, bed pillars etc. With this form of bondage you will have to use rope to tie up your partner, unlike the other ways of bondage where the binding tool can be very versatile. With sort of bondage, you tie your partner in relation to the object you're tying them to to.

With bondage, the bounding of a person is safer when it's the tying of the limbs and how flexible they can, but also make sure the person in the receiving end is comfortable and not in more pain than they would like. And you will have the key to ties that bind, in all aspects.