Genital massages

It has been a while! Since last I posted an entry, I hope you have been taking care of yourself and finding ways to have during self isolating and quarantine. For me it's been quite a ride! But let's get to the day's business. Today I want to focus on something that most people and couples (all types of couples) don't consider and barely know about. I want to focus on genital massages.

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These are very different from hand jobs and require a very gentle and not so vigorous motion. For this I usually use some essential oils or massage gels. You can use whichever one you prefer. The whole point of a massage is to get blood flowing, increase blood circulation, relax the body and ultimately for the whole body to feel better. So it makes sense that your genitalia require one also. Genital massages are great for the penis and help with getting and keeping a hard on, since getting erection depends on blood flow and circulation. The heightening of blood flow helps with a higher sex drive and premature ejaculation. It is important though to limit the sessions of massaging to no longer than 30 minutes. Use some olive oil, grape seed oil and almond oil. You can mix all three at maximum or 2 of them at minimum. Gently start from the testicles, with soft and gentle hand movements to your (if massaging yourself) or partner's (if someone else is massaging you) inner thighs and lower pelvic region. Always be careful with the testicles as they're hypersensitive. Move up the shaft as you're massaging it also. Don't be vigorous as in the case of a hand job, the point here is to be slow, gentle and intense as possible. Roughly applies for the vulva. On this blog entry I will be focusing on an external vulva massage and not an internal vaginal massage. You could use the same mixture of essential oils as stated above and slowly massage the pelvic area all the way down to the inner thighs and all the way up to the lower abdomen. 10 to 15 minutes should be sufficient for each one of these massages. For people with penises, it is important to empty your prostate by ejaculating as you will get an erection during the cause of the massage. It is important for the person getting the massage to empty their bladder first. You can try these massages by yourself or with your partner as you actively do something positive for your genitals and getting to know each other's body.