How to have the perfect quickie: In 5 easy steps

We've all had those moments where we want to be turned inside out, but there isn't enough time because some may deem it too risky or never pleasurable. This is so, because what do you have time for and what don't you have time for.

Quickies are a thing to begin with because it is usually an unplanned moment of intercourse. It usually has to be executed in the heat of the moment with less overthinking and more passion. As people, that is generally one of the most passionate moments of sex you could ever get and experience. That is why it is important that this moment is worth it for both parties involved and it is enjoyed thoroughly in as much as it will be short lived. Rule number one of having an awesome quickie is having to be constantly aware of your environment and surroundings. This helps you to be able to cater to the moment. At the same time this also helps you with what kind of intercourse can one have and be most enjoyable. For instance a moment in the bathroom caters for amazing back strokes or perfect moments of riding. This moment also will cater for any kind of intercourse that one can engage in whilst standing or up against the wall. Whilst at the same time, a moment in a public place can cater for quick oral sex or even penetration with either fingers or a penis.  It is all a matter of being aware of what your environment allows for. If you're people of adrenaline, you could even go out of the lines of what is safe and get risky with it. Which brings me to my second point, taking risks is always a huge turn on! The feeling of taking a risk adds that much more to the passion. The psychology behind the feeling of a possibility of getting caught supports the great feeling of pleasure that is brought by the adrenaline. Thirdly, there is very little time for foreplay and so you have to nip each other's turn on points in the bud. At this point it is also important to intergrate what you would consider as what forms foreplay with what you would consider what forms intercourse. For instance, intergrate cunnilingus or fellatio with fingering or integrating penetrational sex with boob sucking, caressing and touching. This is like killing two birds with one stone, as you're both fucking and getting in some foreplay in the process. Remember you can never get the warmest and wettest without getting horny. Fourthly, you both have to be aware of the mood and be able to lead each other on as a way of teasing each other. Teasing each other is important for releasing the inner sexual potential that you never thought you had, it is also important for compartmentilizing the sexual tension into a proper and channeled sexual action. This is a very psychological process, a process that also requires somewhat physical knowledge of your partner. Knowing the critical points of your partner that are necessary for turning them on as quickly as possible. This also can be used in dirty talk. Your dirty talk always has to relate to a current moment, a coming moment or a past moment. It could be something that starts like, "I'm going to do such and such to you", "I will do such and such to you" or I wanted to or would have done such and such to you". This is a simple way to starting dirty talk and making sure the other person can see the idea, get accustomed to it, start liking it and get enticed by it. Lastly, you have to just enjoy yourself, let yourself go and stop being uptight. In the highest probability, quickies happens with people around you. There could be people in the next room, there could people in the same room and there could be people in the general area you're trying to fit a quickie in and you always have to keep that in mind. Whilst at the same time that could be scary, it is also exhilarating and you should always keep an open mind to it. Having a perfect quickie or rather close to that, requires that you know yourself and the other person. It requires that you know the specific points of importance. To many more risky quickies!