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Polyamory: A terrain unexplored IV (The rotation of the core in a polyamorous relationship)

The core in a polyamorous relationship can be rotated. This happens in the way that originally, there must be a person who will introduce another party in a relationship that was just two people. Because this person has introduced another party, this person is referred to as the core. The rotation of being a core then happens when the relationship is already polyamorous and any other person who was not a core has brought another party to the relationship. The rotation has then taken place. This then references back to the balance of power and practicing a flat structure in a polyamorous relationship (any relationship really).

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There is really no one who is a permanent core, as soon as a person who was not the person who originally introduced a third party introduces a third party, the idea of having a core is then completely eradicated. The decision of who dominates who then solely lies on all parties in the relationship.

Everyone is fully invested in the relationship, and it is a closed system until another party is introduced by one of the parties involved. Dominance and submission rotate, with preferences and desired of parties involved in the relationship. Either way most often than not with inclusive polyamorous relationships, all parties of the relationship choose the party to be involved, everyone must be completely fine with them joining the union and establish understanding. But when bringing in an external party into the relationship exclusively for one’s self, can then mean a rotation in cores or an introduction of a new core. Where, for lack of a better way to put it, the first core will have a branch of lovers that include the second core who also has a branch of their own lover(s). Anyone can be a core; cores can rotate or can be eradicated depending on the terms and kind of the polyamorous relationship.

 
 
 

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