Sex toys: Couples Edition
- Chulumanco-Mihlali Nkasela
- Apr 4, 2020
- 3 min read
I have been MIA for a while. Things have been hectic, I have been trying to deal with my anxiety and missing my babylove, but fear not because I'm back with some juicy content as usual!
So today I want us to drive the sexual liberation conversation up a steep hill a bit, a hill that a lot of people think is a big uncharted taboo territory: sex toys! And in this instance, sex toys for couples. A lot of couples are scared of using sex toys during sex because of the myths that surround sex toys. Using sex toys during sex does not equal a sexual defect or dysfunction from either partner. It is simply a way of enjoying sex on another level. Another leading myth is that you lose feeling to your genitalia whilst having and you end having to constantly use a sex toy. This is of course a myth, using a sex toy does not affect your ability to have sexual stimulation in any way, sex toys merely just amplify the stimulation. You can still be stimulated without the sex toy. There is absolutely no reason to be scared of using sex toys during sex.
Sex toys are popular with people using them alone and as a great way to wholesomely masterbate. But did you know that sex toys can play a great role in amping up your sex life with your partner and help touch connect on a greater level. It is not only about connecting on a greater level, but it is also about the great amount of pleasure that sex toys can help you and your partner with.
My partner and I's first sex toy together was a bullet vibrator. We use this mostly for me, for clitoral and vulval stimulation. It is one of many great sex toys that couples can use when having sex. You can use it either in stimulation during foreplay or stimulation during sex. Instead of using your fingers when stimulating the vulva and clitoris inbetween and during strokes, you can use the vibrator. This is great for both you and your partner. The vibrations of the bullet vibrator will have you both getting off and having great sex.
Another sex toy that is great for couple is a couples double cock ring with a vibrator.

The vibrator is great for clitoral and vulval stimulation whilst the double cock ring is a safer way of maintaining an erection for longer than usual. It's actually great. The rings are very elastic and need just a bit of lube to slide right into the shaft of the penis.
The smaller ring is supposed to be placed a t the end of the penis shaft, whilst the bigger ring is placed at the base of the testicles. The vibrator attached to the cock ring is gently placed above the base of the testicles of top of he penis. The rings are not supposed to be too tight that they restrict blood flow entirely. The stretchyness of the rings allow for any size of a penis to fit with no problems and without being too tight. It is a literal one size fits all. The rings are supposed to feel just how the elastic band on a condom is supposed to feel. Not too tight, but hold just enough for the condom to be secured for safe sex. Should there be any penile pain (which is highly unlikely) because of the tightness or any other reason discontinue use immediately and consult a medical professional.
The vibrator is amazing for clitoral stimulation and vulval stimulation during those deep strokes. The vibrator part usually has a bunny or ribbed rubber attached to it for greater stimulation.
These are two examples of the greatest sex toys for couples that you and your partner can use. These will be sure to have you having the greatest orgasms whilst opening up communication between you and your partner.
You can experiment all you want and drop a comment at the bottom at the comments section.
Remember to use lube so that you're more at ease and a bit wet, this also prevents you from being rubbed raw during sex.
Another important thing to remember for your sex toys is to regularly disinfecting them (especially after sex) with sex toy antibacterial spray, this can be found at any sex toy store.
To explosive orgasms!
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